|
Post by Madridarko on Jan 26, 2005 1:32:56 GMT -5
I do not know how to respond to this statement because I am still dumbfounded. I will try and rephrase my theme of my last post in a more direct way, "you do not seem to be acting like you're usual way, the way you act" I am not saying this is incorrect for you to act differently, but it is a very large change in character of what we are talking about. (bipolar?)
I clearly did not hope for you to take me in a offensive way, just like I did last time in order to avoid this, I will fix the problem by deleting/modifying my post. I do not mind that, and I know when to retreat and give pardons, unfortunatly I seem to be one of the few only ones who has that ability. Appearantly (yes sorry I do not know how to spell perfectly) under you're new character you take more personal certain statements. One of the things I also detest is to be pre-judged by my age. I will promise from now on to have less personal interaction within this adult comunity.
The reason for this post of mine is not to retreat in cowardness of your threatning comments, but in order to ammend my foolish actions which I do take responsibility for and recognize them.
I am sorry if I am too "teen-like" in my response to the problem, I am trieng to solve it to my best understanding in an "adult" way. You must have certainly a clearer understanding of those standards. I never stoped and realized that this sudden change in attitude of your's may be caused by home or other problems in your personal life.
I am sincerely sorry for any problems I may have ever caused during my brief period spent here, I will give my self time to reflect upon my actions and hopefully will not be the only one to do so. I hold no further sentiment of contempt or grudge towards anyone that has participated in some form in this this site.
Good-bye
|
|
|
Post by gretchen on Jan 26, 2005 9:56:15 GMT -5
didn't i just tell you to not ever insinuate anything about my personal character of which you know nothing?!
you just did it again! multiple times! calling me BIPOLAR? what the fuck is that all about?!
i am not having a large "change in character". and you can't have any idea what my character is like. if you think you know me, based on my posts here then you are grossly mistaken.
|
|
|
Post by Madridarko on Jan 26, 2005 19:25:59 GMT -5
and I am not talking about your personal character. I am talking about your behavior of your posts. When asking bipolar, I do not mean in your private life, I mean in the way you are in here. You writte post of kindness and you turn around and take things offensivly and start writting threats/hate posts. I meant to point out your inconsitency of character that is noted in your style of writting. Final point besides not actually calling you bipolar, I am not judging your personall character, I am just pointing out a change in your character that you display on this site. It is my fault if I was not clear enough before, but it is not my fault if you view things through a pesimistic perspective and not even optimistic. (I am not talking about your personal character by this comment. I am just I just saying that in my opinion you are looking at things through the bad/insulting/negative point of view)
|
|
|
Post by gretchen on Jan 26, 2005 21:29:33 GMT -5
madrid.
will you just shut the fuck up.
you make ZERO sense.
ZERO.
i am not having a fucking "inconsistency of character" you self-righteous little shit.
i DON'T LIKE YOU.
YOU PISS ME OFF AND GET ON MY NERVES.
that is all! so just stop talking!
it is INSULTING that you would call me bipolar.
i fucking hate you okay? you and all your stupid 300 and some odd posts. it has nothing to do with my mental health. i just hate you.
|
|
|
Post by Madridarko on Jan 27, 2005 0:43:37 GMT -5
It's 400 and some posts, and your hate will not be enough of a reason for me to leave. I already tried through an apologetic response, but you are the one who did not accept my apologies. "Hate after all is a product of fear"--I had to make this post somehow relevant to DD. I did not know that you would react so violently to the bipolar comment, at least I would not be offended if somebody was to call me so. I think you are taking my words too seriously or to personally, and I apologize once more if I ever did in any way/form insult you. After all it's only my opinion. Hate does not originate out of nowhere, there must be some deeper motivation which causes hate.
"corniest response I have ever written"
|
|
|
Post by gretchen on Jan 27, 2005 21:32:33 GMT -5
nobody asked you to leave.
nobody cares enough, okay?
and i hate you because..... all of your stupid posts. because you are a whore and make no sense.
so shut up, accept the fact that i hate you, and stop talking to me.
|
|
|
Post by Madridarko on Jan 27, 2005 22:04:59 GMT -5
and I am supposing everybody will care if you were to leave? (self-defense statement)
If I am a whore then I can't imagine what youa are. (same reason)
How about we both stop talking to each other?
(yes, I will not isult out of nowhere anymore, but I will defend myself when neccesarily)
|
|
|
Post by gretchen on Jan 29, 2005 22:24:28 GMT -5
you're such a fucking moron, it never ceases to amaze me.
|
|
|
Post by Madridarko on Jan 29, 2005 22:37:50 GMT -5
Yeah, people tend to have that reaction with me, but I am at least glad that I serve the purpouse of entertaining you.
|
|
|
Post by ProvidencePortal on Feb 7, 2005 8:52:00 GMT -5
I serve the purpouse of entertaining you. Entertaining? Not a bit. Not one iota. What you are is doggedly, astoundingly, agonizingly incapable of behaving appropriately. And I mean to tell you this: if you don't take this opportunity to consider all the feedback and adjust your behavior accordingly, you're only hurting yourself. Life will continue to be this way, Madri. Social groups have expectations, even (especially!) at the baseline level of just being human. It's what allows them to operate. It's a core tenet of life. And while you may try to make them, excuses that rely on inexperience, youth or some weird self-aggrandizement ("I'm smart! Because I says so!") are bunk. There's only one reason people refuse to learn and adhere to the norms of a group in which their participating: selfishness. We all could have guessed that you frequently experience this reaction, so saying "Yeah, people tend to have that reaction with me," comes as no surprise. What is surprising (and never ceases to amaze me) is that people go through their lives beaten down, berated and ostricized for their behavior ... and never accept responsibility or take any action to adapt. It's always that everyone else is lacking understanding, acting unfairly or just "being mean." So, my suggestion is you acknowledge you've behaved in appropriately and take a good look at your behavior. That's how you'll stop people from thinking you're a moron -- stop acting like one.
|
|
|
Post by Madridarko on Feb 7, 2005 20:09:59 GMT -5
if you were folowing the discussion PP, you would have noticed that I did indeed accept my incorrect behavior eventhough I was just joking, and then I tried to stop, but I kept on being attacked, so I defended myself gradually decreasing the length untill, as you see, it stopped. OK, and that comment you quouted, I was meant to kinda soften this "I hate you you hate me" discussion, you know sarcasm/admitance of problems/humor.
"it never ceases to amaze me." Gretchen....
that is the messege to which I responded that which you qouted and it wasn't the complete sentence that you qouted
"but I am at least glad that I serve the purpouse of entertaining you." to more exact this is what I said, so it kinda adds a different meaning or feeling once you read it with that which you ommitted. I did not want to attack back, so I kinda just defended myself by admitting something that she stated while adding humor in an idiotic way in order to fend off the attack while not sending it back directly to gretchen. So I softened the blow while diviating it.
|
|
|
Post by ProvidencePortal on Feb 8, 2005 8:46:23 GMT -5
if you were folowing the discussion PP, you would have noticed that I did indeed accept my incorrect behavior eventhough I was just joking, and then I tried to stop, but I kept on being attacked, so I defended myself gradually decreasing the length untill, as you see, it stopped. OK, and that comment you quouted, I was meant to kinda soften this "I hate you you hate me" discussion, you know sarcasm/admitance of problems/humor. "it never ceases to amaze me." Gretchen.... that is the messege to which I responded that which you qouted and it wasn't the complete sentence that you qouted "but I am at least glad that I serve the purpouse of entertaining you." to more exact this is what I said, so it kinda adds a different meaning or feeling once you read it with that which you ommitted. I did not want to attack back, so I kinda just defended myself by admitting something that she stated while adding humor in an idiotic way in order to fend off the attack while not sending it back directly to gretchen. So I softened the blow while diviating it. Translation: "I didn't do it. It's not my fault. Other people are to blame." No need to make any other sort of argument, really. Good luck with things, Madri.
|
|
|
Post by Bigboy on Feb 8, 2005 8:50:31 GMT -5
I'm sorry Madrid, but you really do have to take some responsibilty here.
You say you "tried to apologize" and you "tried to stop".
This would have been a simple - 'Sorry for any offence' and then leave it whether or not the apology was accepted.
What you did was make a half hearted 'apology', then restate the offending remarks and try to justify them - often making more offensive statements in the process.
Don't get me wrong, I quite like you and welcome your input - our exchanges have been pretty mature and, most importantly, on topic, but your 'conversation' with Gretchen was often little more than childish.
If you have to reply again please let it be a simple apology, then let this thread die in peace.
|
|
|
Post by Omnipotent on Feb 8, 2005 10:44:43 GMT -5
A pretty face conceals an evil mind.
Look at Gretchen manipulating the men into doing her bidding lol.
|
|
|
Post by Phil on Feb 8, 2005 11:09:01 GMT -5
yup, she did, and fair play to her lol
|
|